Jasper | Oct 14, 2021 | 0
How To Tell If A Guy Likes You - 3 Signs he's into you.
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If you've been wondering how to tell if a guy likes you...
And you just can't take the suspense anymore, you found this post right in time. I'll be explaining how to tell if he likes be showing you how to spot the most common signs of attraction, and I'll even give you one sure-fire technique to help you find out if he's feeling you.
So how do you know if a boy likes you? It's all about knowing what to look for, and sometimes it's forcing the guy to play his hand.
And learning how to know if a boy likes you is a great step on the road figuring out how to get a boyfriend.
So let's get down to it, and figure out how to tell if a guy likes you.
Why Is Knowing How To Tell If A Guy Likes You So Important?
Aren't guys supposed to be suave and dashing and proclaim their intention to engage you romantically? Why should you have to study how to know if a guy likes you?
Well, the truth is that a lot of guys have a complicated relationship with their feelings and they don't really know how much emotion they're supposed to show.
Some guys will make their feelings obvious by telling you how they feel, asking you out on a date, or just making a move...but a lot of guys will take a slower approach to try and gauge your feelings before making their final descent,
And if you know how to tell if a guy likes you, you can either encourage his feelings or shoot a shot of your own.
So help a guy out, and learn how to tell if a guy likes you.
How To Tell If A Guy Likes You
If you think your crush has been flirting but you really can't be sure, knowing how to tell if a guy likes you is all about looking for three clear signs.
And if you master those signals, apply your best sleuthing skills and still can't figure out how he feels...
I'm gonna teach you how to have a conversation with a guy that will get him talking and spilling his beans before he even realizes what he's done.
Here is how to tell if a guy likes you:
1. He treats you differently
Does your crush stand up straighter when he sees you coming? Is the way he jokes with you different than the way he jokes with his other buddies?
Even a guy who's trying to hide how he feels can't hide these tell-tall signs that he's got a crush on you. And a guy who's trying to show you how he feels will basically bend over backwards to tell you he thinks of you as something more than a friend.
He'll do things like offer to give you a ride to terribly inconvenient places, or remember little details that you never would have expected.
Look for signs that he treats you differently, more specially, than the rest of his friends. Because those are the signs that he thinks of you as different, more special, than the rest of his friends.
2. He gets close
If a guy is into you, he's going to find any excuse to get close to you.
Meaning if the gang is splitting up into cars, he's gonna end up in yours. And if he finds out you're going somewhere, he's gonna be down to go there too.
Plus, whenever you get to your shared destination, your crush is going to try and share your space. It's just simple attraction. During conversation, he won't even notice himself leaning in close. But you will, because you know what to look for.
3. He tunes in
Another key sign that the guy you like likes you back is sadly very easy to miss,
Because you may not notice that he isn't always like that...
If the guy that you like is super attentive, like he always maintains eye contact, he doesn't get distracted by his phone when you hang out, and he lets you finish your thought before interrupting,
Either the dude you like is some kind of super human from a by-gone era a la Captain America, Or he's into you.
That sounds like a bleak view on man-kind, but it's not... even the best of guys get distracted or stare off into space during conversation, but it takes a guy who really likes you to summon the strength to silence the call of all the distractions of modern life.
While you try and gauge his relative attentiveness, look out for his tuned-in body language, too.
In addition to maintaining eye contact, a guy who likes you will subconsciously point his feet towards you when you're standing and talking. He'll open his posture up towards you to show what he's working with.
So if you seem to be the center of his attention - heart, mind, and body - it's a really good sign he likes you.
Pro tip. Start a conversation with a guy
If you've been picking up on every hint he drops and you still can't figure out how he feels, knowing how to start a conversation with a guy that opens him up to more intimate conversations can get him to blurt out his feelings before he even realizes it.
And a big part of conversation starting is knowing questions to ask a guy you like. You can work these in when the conversation lends itself, or you can use them to get the ball rolling on a new topic. Ask him about what he values in a relationship, what kind of person he wants to be, or about his hopes and dreams can get him thinking about relationships.
And how you respond will either encourage him to open up, or force him back into his shell.
So if you can't read the first three signs clearly, use this pro-tip to open him up and solve that mystery once and for all.
How To Tell If A Guy Likes You At Work
Learning how to tell if a guy likes you at work is very similar to figuring it out in any other setting, but obviously the constraints of work can make displaying - and reading - those signs a little bit harder. In fact, work romances can be difficult, so this topic deserves a post of it's own.
In the meantime, read him for signals of special attention, and be sure to make time for conversations outside of work so you can really get to know each other.
More Great Steps To Get The Guy
Looking for more tips to help you land that guy you've got a crush on? Check out these posts for more great tips.
- Find where to meet men you actually want to date.
- If you find yourself saying "Uggggghhhhhh I want a boyfriend" - this post is for you.
- Read all about how to attract men by using what you've got.
- Is he playing hard to get? Here's why men pull away.
So what's the key to knowing how to tell if a guy likes you?
It all comes down to attention, and how much of it he gives to you. See, boys really aren't very sneaky and figuring out how to know if a guy likes you is actually surprisingly easy. But if you watch your crush closely and you're still thinking,
Wait, how do you know if a boy likes you? I can't tell what this guy is doing...
Take control by starting conversations that cause him to reflect on and reveal his emotions, and be ready when the truth bombs begin to drop.
Now that you know how to tell if he likes you by looking out for these three key signals, you're well on your way to learning how to get a boyfriend.