In this article, I'll tell you the best texts to make him think about you.
If you're struggling with how to text a guy, you've come to the right place for advice. I know all about how to be flirty over text. After all, I am a successful dating coach, featured in places like Reader's Digest and Yahoo! Life.
So, let's dive right in and talk about all the short and long texts to make him think about you.
Ultimate List Of Messages You Could Send Him Throughout The Day
Do you want to send your guy something to have him thinking about you all day? Don't worry; it doesn't have to be a flirty photo. A sexy text, even a funny text with a funny meme, can do wonders in getting yourself stuck on his mind.
5 Funny Things To Say Over Text That Will Make Your Crush Chuckle
They say a way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Well, the way to a man's mind is by making him laugh. Whether you opt for funny good morning texts or random hilarious jokes throughout the day, that man will love the fun vibes you send.
1. ''Stop thinking about me so much! I'm feeling tired from running in your mind all day.''
A good joke to send your boyfriend late afternoon. Flirty text messages have extra value when they're funny.
2. ''Just a reminder, I’m still single, in case you were wondering.''
It's a flirty message to remind him you're interested in being something more. It's direct, but in a good way, that's light and funny. Let that man know you've got grit and character.
3. ''Which emoji makes you think of me?''
A cute text message like this is good to send during a flirtatious exchange. Get ready because his reply might surprise you. If there was a cute butt emoji, perhaps that's what you can reply if he asks you the same question. You know, for laughs.
4. ''I’m totally craving some time with you right now.''
Not laugh out loud funny, but it does send a playful note perfect for sending to a loved one. Who doesn't want to receive a romantic message like this where someone clearly states they're missing your company?
5. ''I pretty much hate everyone, but you’re the exception.''
This is a funny message to send when you're having a not-so-great day. It shares your frustration but also shares the love you have for your man. You hate everyone except him.
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5 Romantic Messages For Him Guaranteed to Keep You in His Mind All Day
There are many romantic things to say to your boyfriend in a text, but some really hit all the right buttons. It sends a message of love that strengthens that bond you have for each other.
6. ''I wish you were here next to me right now.''
Send this one at the right time, and your boyfriend might make an unplanned visit.
7. ''It feels so empty without you here.''
Long-distance relationships can be hard, so messages reminding your guy how much you miss him are essential to send from time to time. For him to have you on his mind, he has to know you think of him too.
8. ''You’re the piece of me I didn’t know was missing.''
A guy appreciates a romantic text message like this. It's passionate, sentimental, and takes some courage to say. But it sends the message of true love and will have him thinking about you all day.
9. ''I can’t stop thinking about you.''
It's a sweet message you can send him randomly throughout the day. He'll think about you thinking about him. It only takes a little thing like this to get him excited about you.
10. ''My morning would have been much better if I got to wake up next to you.''
Flirty good morning texts are an excellent way to ensure you stay on your boyfriend's mind all day. It plants that seed nice and early, and those thoughts of you grow and grow throughout the day.
5 Juicy Texts to Surprise Him With That Will Make Him Blush
Knowing how to talk dirty to him on text can be a great way to catch his attention. He'll be surprised, in the best way possible, and will no doubt dedicate some time to replying to every flirtatious thing you send.
11. ''Let’s skip the small talk and go straight to flirting.''
Some guys do appreciate a forward woman. This is direct and lets him know you're ready for a good time. Skip the boring parts.
12. ''You’re going to love the outfit I'm going to wear tonight.''
He'll undoubtedly have a wonderful day picturing just what you'll be putting on for him that night. You can even up this sweet text with a preview picture of just a small section of your outfit.
13. ''If I could change one thing about myself right now, it would be where I am. I wish I were with you instead.''
Standard dating advice is to tell your partner how you feel. Keep honest communication open. Sending a juicy text is a great way to be flirty but also tell someone how much you love them.
14. ''My heart skips a beat every time you send me a text.''
It's not directly provocative, but your conversation from here on could get interesting.
15. ''I just saw something hot and I thought about you.''
Sexy texts are those that excite the receiver. If you love your man, send him love messages that really let him know how you feel. Let them be suggestive from time to time, and allow yourselves to have some spicy exchanges.
5 Interesting Conversation Starters Over Text to Make Him Want You
If you want to keep talking to your guy, have some interesting text conversation starters. Whether it's a flirty text message that opens up dialogue or something intriguing you heard a dating coach say that you want to share, texting is an excellent way to build a connection with someone through conversation.
16. ''Can you send me a selfie?''
Start a conversation in the morning by asking for this favor rather than sending the usual, "Good morning, sweetheart."
17. ''What on earth did I think about all the time before I met you?''
Texting can be a great way to express how you feel about someone. Whether love is already strong in your relationship or it's still growing, texting is a great way to communicate how you feel.
18. ''I’ve gotten way better at *insert a game you both play. I challenge you to match later – loser pays for dinner.''
Texting doesn't all have to be serious. You can make a game out of it. Send text messages to each other with challenges.
19. ''This song made me think of you. What do you think?''
Cute texts are an excellent way to get your guy talking to you. If you end your text messages with questions, it really keeps the convo going.
20. ''What is your ideal date? Do you want to do that later with me?''
Texting is a great way to make plans and share your most inner thoughts, wants, and dreams. When love is in the air, let text messages be your passage to each other.
Downloadable and Printable List of Texts To Make Him Think About You
Here is a downloadable and printable jpg/pdf list of texts to make him think about you (right-clicked the image and select Save Image As...):
Dos and Don'ts to Remember When Texting A Guy
We've all experienced the difficulty of deciphering the tone of a text message. You might have even entered full-blown panic mode after sending a paragraph, and all you got back was a measly single-letter reply. OUCH!
When it comes to texting, there are some social rules.
Here are the dos and don'ts:
Do check if you have the right number first.
Make sure to double-check who you're texting before you press that send button. Nothing worse than sending off those text messages full of love and flirty innuendos, only to realize you've sent them to the wrong person.
Do be creative and thoughtful in your text messages.
If you're going to send text messages, at least do it effectively. Keep in mind that your texting may impact your relationship. Be mindful and always be yourself. Text messages can be a powerful way to express love.
Do try to be short and concise with your messages.
Depending on what you're trying to get across, avoid texting huge blocks of text. It can be a real turn-off and uninteresting to the receiver. Send short, flirty messages and a simple good night or good morning message. Don't bombard your guy with novel-length updates throughout the day.
Don't send a message very early in the morning or too late at night.
A good morning text is nice to send someone you love, but not when you send it way too early, and it wakes them up. The same goes for those late-night messages. Practice some etiquette.
Don't send more than one text.
Texting too many times in a row can be off-putting, especially if you haven't given your texting partner time to reply. Give him some space, and try to stick to one conversation topic at a time.
Don't always text him first.
Everyone appreciates sweet texts, but if you are the one to always send them to him first, hold back. He should be putting some effort into messaging you first sometimes too.
What Other Activities Could We Do Together Over Text?
Messaging can be more than just "good morning honey" and other flirty exchanges and conversations. It can be a lot of fun and games too!
1. Truth or Dare Questions
Truth or dare questions over text can be so much fun. Test his love and patience by asking the hard questions. See how far he is willing to go.
2. Never Have I Ever
Mantelligence.com has some of the best Never Have I Ever Questions for couples. Come up with some colorful consequences, and this can have you both giggling over your phones all night. Good luck!
3. I Spy...
A game everyone knows. If you are creative enough, this can turn out to be a great game for couples with some flirty ramifications for getting your guesses wrong.
4. Emoji Translation
The game where you tell a story or send a love message using only emojis. Your partner then has to translate what you've said. There are some ingenious messages you can come up with.
5. Guess the Riddle
If you're looking for some fun, easy riddles with answers, Mantelligence.com has some that will have you scratching your head.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you have questions related to messaging? Here, we've answered the most frequently asked.
Will a text message be enough to make him like me?
One text message can either make you cringe or proud, one that can make him like you! Just send the appropriate yet flirty ones to get him to smile when he sees your notification pop up on his phone!
What will I do if he doesn't reply to my messages?
If you're asking yourself, "Should I text him again?" consider how long you've given him to reply. Just because he hasn't responded to your messages, it's not the end of the world. Keep yourself busy! Don't sit by the phone waiting for his response.
What other things can I do to make him think of me?
A great way to get some attention without asking for it is by forwarding a funny meme or video. It signals, "I like you, and I'm thinking of you," without being too intrusive. He'll appreciate it, and it'll make him think of you.
When is the best time to message a guy?
The best time to message him is in the evening because the mind is tired from the day. He'll likely need someone to talk to, wind down with, and possibly vent. Be that person for him. Try your luck and message him in the evening. Of course, don't wait until you're about to sleep! Leave some time so you can have a longer conversation.
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Now that you know how to use texts to make him think about you, grab your phone, and get busy. You'll be an expert in how to flirt over text in no time!
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